Pain and thoughts

Pain and Thoughts:



 Pain: feeling what happened physicly or mently
Thoughts: Thinking that it hurts and let it bring you down when it really dosen't



I felt these 2 things when i was both physicly hurt by a bully. I didn't know which i believed more though. My Pain or my thoughts? This question i asked to myself probably a million times a day, when I was home, at school and when i got home. I carried it with me and then finally gave up. I figured out it was my thoughts that got the best of me and i hated it. I was so upset that all of it happened i just let it litturallyget the best of me. I cried everyday for a week for nothing. Even though it did hurt, I didn't have to just keep it "dragging" behind my back. What was it for you when the bully struck you?

Girl bullies and boy bullies

Girl bullies usually just spread rumors or gossip about one another, but mostly its the boys that actually what i like to say "get down" hard on the target. That means that the boys don't usually talk about it they actually kick, fistfight, or anything physicly hurting them. Target and Victom are 2 different things.
Target: Meaning someone they just decided to "pick" randomly out of a crowd.
Victom: Meaning someone who gets picked on everyday (the same person) and who has been dealing with the bully.
Striker: The bully, the one who is starting the fight. usually heads for the Victom or Target.

Why do they do this?

Bullies are usually mean when, they have hard lives or just to get noticed. Sometimes the bully could get abused at home or at school, maybe he or she has no friends or has lower grades. They usually do it to make others feel what they feel everyday. Sometimes they are shy and can't get in the light...but you just got to tell them that they'll get there one day! Try being nice instead of saying something mean or doing something back. They might give you a hard life because they think the'll get cooler..but it's not true. you should say to him or she that You know what, I don;t think what you are doing is cool or is getting you GOOD attention. You are getting attention but in other peoples mine not the "cool" way of attention more like: oh no he/she beat that kid up, no way am i being their friend!

Who do I tell and can Trust?

Well, for most kids they are to "shy" to tell an adult because they'll think they are tattling. Tattling and telling are 2 different things. Tattling is when you want to get someone in trouble, and telling is when you tell adult something if you need help. Now a lot of kids ask well who can I tell? Well, for some people go to your mom and dad and for others go to you favorite teacher because they will understand and will help. Tell someone you think you can trust.